As it happens, a girl professing her love for a guy her own volition is extremely rare. Our society often expects a guy to proclaim his love for a girl and ask her if she feels the same. Your love story is no exception.
But how do you know if a girl you know for some time is really in love with you? Unfortunately, every guy is afraid of getting friend-zoned. So, mustering the courage to say the L-word is not as easy in real life as it seems in the movies. Most guys have to face this ordeal at some point in their lives.
Fortunately, if you know the signs she loves you but is scared to tell you, you can pop the question with the confidence of a positive response.
Let’s see what these hints are.
Decoding the Signs She Loves You But Is Scared to Tell You
1. She Makes Constant Eye Contact
One of the most common signs she loves you but is scared to tell you is the constant eye contact. You can see the true feelings in one’s eyes. So, if a girl is making eye contact with you for a longer period, she most likely has romantic feelings for you.
Especially introverted girls are more likely to make constant eye contact but won’t tell you about their feelings one-on-one. If the girl is introvert, maybe it’s time to step up and ask her out on a date.
2. She Texts You Proactively
When a girl is interested in you, she will most probably maintain constant communication through text messages. She will text you practically all day long, including weekdays and weekends. If you are a night owl, she may continue texting even late at night.
However, she will talk about her day and yours, keeping the conversation as casual as possible. That means she is not likely to flirt with you even though she may have started falling for you. She may think that being obvious or flirting with you might blow things up.
3. Her Behavior Changes around You
Change in behavior is another sure-shot sign that she is falling for you but isn’t ready to tell you yet. The change is quite apparent to not only you but perhaps everyone around you. For example, a talkative girl may suddenly fall silent, or an introvert girl may start talking to you cheerfully.
She may also start showing interest in things she usually doesn’t like, but you do. For example, she may talk about a party you liked or your favorite band or book. The bottom line is she wants to talk to you and laugh with you.
4. Her Body Language Also Changes
If you look carefully, you can pick up a few body language signs. For example, she may straighten up her posture when you are around. She might also play with her hair or become more attentive as soon as you walk in.
She may also open doors, bring things for you, put an arm out in front at a crosswalk or walk streetside when you are out. She may also go suddenly quiet, which is unlike her usual bubbly self. She might also mimic your behavior and keep nodding to whatever you are saying. She may appear stressed or unusually emotional in your presence. You are catching my drift.
5. Her Friends Know About You
We often talk about people we love and like with our friends. Girls also do the same. In fact, they like to share almost anything and everything with their besties. In other words, she is most likely to bring you up in conversations with her friends.
If she’s talking about how weird you are, that’s not a sign of love. If she’s talking good things about you, however, that’s a different story. If her friends know all about you such as your favorites and dislikes, your habits, personal things, goals and ambitions, and your friends, she has feelings for you.
6. She Wants to Know More About You
If she has feelings for you, she will surely want to know more about you. From your habits to the company you keep, she will try to find out as much about you as possible. While some girls may directly or indirectly ask you about these things, others will talk to your friends to find out more about you.
Also, she will pay close attention when you are talking about things like relationships, your goals, and other personal things. She might also ask you a few pointed questions during such conversations to know you better. If you see this sign, you can go ahead and ask her if she has feelings for you.
7. She Has Time for You
Who do we plan our weekends and quality time activities with but the people we love. So, if a girl is into you, she will like to make time for you, treating you as a priority. She will plan weekends with you, or find time to be with you even if she has a hectic schedule.
She will walk home with you or take the bus with you instead of driving home from school or college. She will also ask you if you need her to do something with you, like plan a party, go shopping, do the homework, work on a project, or just hang out.
8. She Finds Your Jokes Funny Even the Bad Ones
According to a study, you are more likely to be interested in some kind of relationship with a person if you initiate any kind of humor towards them. If the other person is also interested, they should be more likely to perceive you as humorous and respond favorably (laugh), even if you’re objectively not all that funny.
In other words, if a girl laughs at all your jokes, even the really bad ones, she may have romantic feelings for you. Remember, she will not laugh for the sake of it, but her body language will show that she loves your humor. In reality, this is an attempt to impress you.
9. She Talks about Her Personal Stuff
Whether it is over texting or in person, she likes to talk about things happening in her life. From the worst experiences she had in the past to her secrets and interests, she will probably share everything with you. The truth is she is trying to tell you who she is and checking if you can accept her as she is.
I think we all can agree that people share personal and intimate aspects of their lives with someone they trust and also love. This may be the right time to find out what her inclinations are towards you.
10. Exchanging Music Lists
Music is one of the first personal things she will share with you and ask you to share in return if she is falling for you. Music is an art that helps you understand a person better. By asking you to share your favorite music, she is trying to find out about your temperament, emotional level, and your mood in general.
Likewise, by sharing her favorite music, she is asking you to understand her better. She might even share love songs or songs that you find a personal connection with, indirectly confessing her feelings for you. The question is, can you relate to her love and feelings?
Finding out if a girl has feelings for you doesn’t have to be a difficult task. Hopefully, knowing these ten signs will help you whether or not a girl is in love with you. Chances are, you will notice more than one signs, offering you a firm motivation to take the next step. Good luck!