You can be in a relationship for years and still feel like you need to get to know your partner better. Humans are incredibly complex beings with countless layers of feelings, personality traits, and interests.
When you feel like you are bonding with your significant other, this affects all aspects of your partnership for the better. So, whether you’ve just started a new relationship or you’re looking to spice up an existing one, here are four ways you can get emotionally closer to a partner…
1. Make Dating A Priority
Even if you have known each other for decades, you should never cease to make dating a priority. Every couple needs to make time for each other and reinforce their level of intimacy.
Depending on your schedule, you could agree to make time to date every week or month. Take it in turns to plan a date and surprise your significant other on a regular basis. You can even organise dates at home, for example a romantic meal or spa day.
2. Show Interest In Each Other’s Hobbies
Sometimes the novelty of getting to know each other begins to wear off and you realise that your interests are rather different. This is completely normal and nothing to be afraid of.
Instead of separating your leisure time, make an effort to show interest in each other’s hobbies. Just be straightforward and ask your partner if they would be interested in sharing their hobby with you. Similarly, you can explore new activities together and find something that is new to both of you.
3. Find Out Your Personality Type
Another fun activity you can try to get to know each other better is taking a series of personality tests. If you’re not sure where to get started, we recommend the Myer-Briggs test.
The results of these tests can even help you express your love more effectively. Once you know what type of personality your partner has, you can cater to their strengths and weaknesses. For example, an ENTJ in love will value a romantic partner that can stimulate them intellectually.
4. Learn Their Love Language
Love is one of the most intimate and beautiful feelings in the world. However, it is received differently across different people. Love languages refer to the way that people like to express and receive love. There are five distinct types: words of affirmation, gift giving, acts of service, quality time, and physical touch.
You may love when your partner showers you with compliments. However, your partner may prefer to receive gifts as a token of your appreciation. Take the time to learn their love language and cater to it throughout the relationship.
All in all, it’s important to keep trying with your partner. Don’t take anything for granted, no matter how great things seem to be going on the surface. Make sure to break out of your daily routine and keep things fun. If you’re struggling to get closer to your partner, you may just need to improve your communication.
